Climbing out of the Rabbit Hole

I suspect if my sibling had written, “Hey Kim, I’m uncomfortable with having my image in your FB post. Might you consider taking it down? Thanks.” I would have taken the first option.

Can you relate? An adult orders you to do something, and you revert to the eight-year old who refused to eat peas for dinner. It gets ugly real fast.

Yet if someone asks you nicely, with respect, the people pleaser in you jumps in and agrees without thinking. This way, everyone stays friends.