Top 5 Peaceful Divorce Resources

Nearly everyone who reaches out to me has no idea of how to divorce.

They want to divorce peacefully, yet …

It’s as if there is a screen door between them & the process. They know that court is part of it, yet it’s all murky & unclear. They want to divorce peacefully, yet haven’t been able to find any resources.

Here are the top 5 resources I’ve created to help you walk your divorce journey the way you want: keeping the peace so you & your children can thrive.

Divorce without the right help is like walking this treacherous portion of the Camino del Norte in Spain.

Divorce Harms Kids, or Does It?

If you’re worried about the impact of divorce on your kids, this TEDx talk is a great resource. I uncovered research that will surprise you, & my son gave me permission to share his transformational story.

How Do I Tell My Spouse I Want A Divorce?

The one thing that can make or break your dream of a peaceful divorce is how you tell your spouse. In this workbook, I share exactly what I did, including the script I used. I’ve heard from some people that this is all they needed to keep the divorce process peaceful.

Is peaceful divorce possible if my spouse is a narcissist?

Nearly everyone thinks if they’re married to a narcissist, they’re in for the fight of their life in divorce. Not true. If you don’t believe me, check on this blog post about how to negotiate with a narcissist.

My clients use these techniques successfully all the time to keep the divorce as peaceful as possible.

What is a Narcissist?

The short form, buzz word for abuse is a relationship is NARCISSIST. We use it, yet do we know what it means? I didn’t, so I researched it. I also looked at sleep deprivation, & discovered there more alike than we might realize.

Here’s why knowing this is important to peaceful divorce: if you call your spouse a narcissist & end your thinking there, you become enemies. When this happens, it’s really easy to over-spend, go to legal war, & harm your kids. If your spouse is sleep deprived, your mindset is different. Peace becomes possible. Learn more by clicking this link.

Can We Do This Ourselves?

When I was a lawyer, I met families who had figured out everything themselves, & needed help with formalizing the divorce in court. I happily prepared documents for them that had them applying for divorce together (usually, one spouse applies for divorce & the other spouse has to respond … the power dynamics are horrible, & often increase conflict).

I’m sharing two resources here.

In the podcast interview, I talk about the legal system & how it gets in the way of peaceful divorce. In other words, this is a place where you can listen on Spotify or on Apple Podcasts, & learn more so you can shape your divorce into how you want it to be.

I also share a link to a recorded series of 5 videos in the “My Lawyer Free Divorce Bootcamp”. In them, I cover how you can divorce without legal assistance, starting with setting a goal & ending with how to fill in those course forms.

The Bonus Resource

You don’t have to do this alone. Seriously. I offer a free 20-30 minute session, the “Fair & Family Focused Divorce Consult”. This isn’t about me trying to coerce you to become a client; you’ve experienced enough of that. If I think we’re a fit, towards the end of the call I will ask you something like, “would you be interested in learning more about how I might be able to help?”

You’re free to say yes, or no.

After all, if you want a peaceful divorce, you become the expert. With me, it begins with that question. I share this so you can book your call without worrying about being sold to, & can instead focus on gaining clarity to divorce in the way that works best for your family.

Ready to get started? If you’d like to discuss your peaceful divorce journey & the steps you need to take, book your free 20-30 minute session now.